It is not, fortunately, all like that, and a couple of the more promising and prolific fanwriters at ff.net have come around to latching onto the idea of Mwu as the more damaged of the two of them.

Which leads to things like angsty alternate ending for phase 49 fic in which he doesn't quite get the Strike in position in time to block the positron beam and the Archangel blows up, so he kamikazes the Dominion instead.

But what can you do?